STOP LABELING PEOPLE

I'm trying to word this the right way so bare with me...

Society constantly belittles us for simple life choices that go against the grain.

Just because a man wants sex a lot doesn't mean he is a perv..same for a woman, that doesn't make her a hoe.

If a man turns you down because you won't have sex with him doesn't make him weak it means he just isn't ready to make that sacrifice yet. 

Likewise if a woman makes you wait it doesn't mean she isn't freaky, it just means she isn't ready to make that move.

If you're a virgin in today's society yes it's a little slimmer pickings for you but that doesn't mean you have to give up on your choice to remain pure just because everyone else is going buck wild. Do you and don't let anybody make you feel bad for it!

Sex is everywhere today. Some people do it a lot and some don't do it at all. Some like it nasty and some want it simple. The problem comes when we base our relationships off of our sexual encounters, whether past or present.

You may have had Porn star level sex in the past, but you fall in love with a virgin and are disappointed because they are inexperienced.

Or you may want basic love making and are turned off because your partner is too good and at a higher level. That's not fair because love shouldn't be based on sex.

If you would like more pointers and tips on a healthy relationship feel free to contact me at ShawnJRansom@gmail.com or Social media @ShawnJRansom & #HowShawnSeesIt