Single Dads Aren't A Downgrade

Men: Don't let a bitter woman tear you down! If you know you love your kids then be there for your kids!

Don't worry what lies she's telling about you!

Do good by yourself and your kids!

A "REAL" woman won't listen to what she's "heard" about you. She will find out for herself.

The stigma associated with a black man with kids is horrible especially if you have kids by more than one woman. You're automatically looked at negatively.

Masculinity is forced to be so hard but it's really so fragile. That's why we have to uplift each other!

Yes there are women who just won't date a man with kids but there is a woman out there who will accept you and your kids! Go find her!!

 #HowShawnSeesIt

UPDATE:

This whole post was about uplifting men and just like always some people took literally one sentence and start to call men "irresponsible" and "creating another broken home" if that was you then you missed the entire point of the message and is contributing to the problem of the negative image on single fathers.

Then some women are judging men with kids like it's his fault.

Maybe he tried to marry them and they said no,

Maybe they weren't wife material,

Maybe they trapped him,

Maybe they were a great girlfriend but changed into someone he didn't want to be with.

How was he to know that there would be no future?

What if he wanted a future but she didn't?

It's soooo many different reasons why a man doesn't marry his baby momma and to say that's "irresponsible" on his part is very misandristic.